Inner to outward relationship building.

What relationships have a positive impact on you?


In my life, several relationships act as pillars of influence and growth. These connections add significant value, fueling my pursuit of my core values: continuous learning, self-reliance, and making a net positive contribution to the world.

The most profound relationship exists within. It might seem self-centered, but spending the majority of life with oneself dictates its importance. A strained relationship with the self translates to unhappiness and hinders building meaningful connections with others. Therefore, I cultivate a positive and uplifting internal dialogue. While self-criticism is present, it manifests with the compassion I would extend to a dear friend. Valuing my independence and nurturing my being allow me to remain unburdened by expectations and undue attachment to others.

The relationship with my wife holds profound sway. She serves as a mirror to my authenticity, readily confronting discrepancies between my philosophies and actions. As the one closest to me, her voice has a unique vulnerability-inducing power. While a thousand voices might mock or condemn, a single gentle word from her can overwhelm me. This delicate space becomes my laboratory, where I continuously learn and cultivate virtues that foster healthy relationships.


My relationship with colleagues plays a crucial role in my ability to leave a positive mark on society. My work’s impact and effectiveness heavily rely on solid working relationships. While universal popularity isn’t necessary, mutual respect and appreciation are instrumental.

The most transformative relationships in my life reside within myself, with my wife, and with my colleagues. This list isn’t exhaustive, but these connections are undoubtedly instrumental in shaping me and propelling me forward.

What is your opinion?