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The Ripple Effect: Transforming Relationships Through Inner Peace


I stand as the architect of my reality, gazing upon the reflection of my inner self in the world around me. With each step, I strive to refine myself, honing my awareness of the universe’s subtle whispers reflected in my life. Currently, I sense a prevailing “strive” – a tension I may not directly engage in, but one that ripples through my being nonetheless. Family ties bind me to this dynamic, making it impossible to turn a blind eye.

Yet, I am learning to untangle myself from the emotional currents and vulnerabilities caught within this situation. My wisdom tells me I don’t need to be swept away by the tide; I can bring calmness to the storm. My support and guidance are readily available upon request, offered with love and understanding.

I recognize the inherent value of balance and harmony. While I respect the individual responsibility others hold for managing their own lives, I choose to be a pillar of support, actively weaving positive intentions into their journeys. When necessary, I step forward, not to fuel the drama, but to offer a blessing of illumination, seeking to shed light on each situation from a higher perspective.

By connecting with the observer within, I transcend the negative vortex of emotions and attachments. As I rise above, my creative spirit empowers me to act with greater wisdom and impact. It is not about controlling the external world, but mastering my own inner responses, ensuring they contribute to a more positive collective reality.

© Jurgens Pieterse. All rights reserved. 2024

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Inner to outward relationship building.

What relationships have a positive impact on you?


In my life, several relationships act as pillars of influence and growth. These connections add significant value, fueling my pursuit of my core values: continuous learning, self-reliance, and making a net positive contribution to the world.

The most profound relationship exists within. It might seem self-centered, but spending the majority of life with oneself dictates its importance. A strained relationship with the self translates to unhappiness and hinders building meaningful connections with others. Therefore, I cultivate a positive and uplifting internal dialogue. While self-criticism is present, it manifests with the compassion I would extend to a dear friend. Valuing my independence and nurturing my being allow me to remain unburdened by expectations and undue attachment to others.

The relationship with my wife holds profound sway. She serves as a mirror to my authenticity, readily confronting discrepancies between my philosophies and actions. As the one closest to me, her voice has a unique vulnerability-inducing power. While a thousand voices might mock or condemn, a single gentle word from her can overwhelm me. This delicate space becomes my laboratory, where I continuously learn and cultivate virtues that foster healthy relationships.


My relationship with colleagues plays a crucial role in my ability to leave a positive mark on society. My work’s impact and effectiveness heavily rely on solid working relationships. While universal popularity isn’t necessary, mutual respect and appreciation are instrumental.

The most transformative relationships in my life reside within myself, with my wife, and with my colleagues. This list isn’t exhaustive, but these connections are undoubtedly instrumental in shaping me and propelling me forward.