In my life, several relationships act as pillars of influence and growth. These connections add significant value, fueling my pursuit of my core values: continuous learning, self-reliance, and making a net positive contribution to the world.
The most profound relationship exists within. It might seem self-centered, but spending the majority of life with oneself dictates its importance. A strained relationship with the self translates to unhappiness and hinders building meaningful connections with others. Therefore, I cultivate a positive and uplifting internal dialogue. While self-criticism is present, it manifests with the compassion I would extend to a dear friend. Valuing my independence and nurturing my being allow me to remain unburdened by expectations and undue attachment to others.
The relationship with my wife holds profound sway. She serves as a mirror to my authenticity, readily confronting discrepancies between my philosophies and actions. As the one closest to me, her voice has a unique vulnerability-inducing power. While a thousand voices might mock or condemn, a single gentle word from her can overwhelm me. This delicate space becomes my laboratory, where I continuously learn and cultivate virtues that foster healthy relationships.
My relationship with colleagues plays a crucial role in my ability to leave a positive mark on society. My work’s impact and effectiveness heavily rely on solid working relationships. While universal popularity isn’t necessary, mutual respect and appreciation are instrumental.
The most transformative relationships in my life reside within myself, with my wife, and with my colleagues. This list isn’t exhaustive, but these connections are undoubtedly instrumental in shaping me and propelling me forward.
Life’s major shifts have followed me like the persistent claws of karma, each one shaping my path and pushing me towards new horizons. These changes, born of both choice and circumstance, have almost always revolved around my career, a constant thread woven through the tapestry of my existence.
My yearning for independence first led me to Cape Town, a daring move that uprooted not just me but also my family. It was a dramatic leap into the unknown, a bold declaration of my autonomy and a testament to my unwavering desire to carve my own path.
Fueled by this same yearning, I took the plunge into entrepreneurship, throwing caution to the wind and starting my own business. For ten years, I thrived in the whirlwind of self-reliance, building a life where I was the master of my own destiny. However, the claws of fate intervened in the form of a global economic downturn, forcing me to confront the true cost of independence. My business became unsustainable, and the tax burden became overwhelming. With heavy hearts, I sought refuge in the stability of conventional employment, accepting a consultancy position.
The shift back to salaried work was nearly as momentous as venturing into entrepreneurship itself. Though I had traded some independence for security, I found solace in the values that had always guided me: independence, learning, and making a positive contribution. With less freedom to chart my own course, I channeled my energy into making a meaningful impact within the confines of my new role. The debt incurred during the economic downturn became a constant companion, a reminder of the sacrifices made and the lessons learned. While complete recovery may remain elusive, I find solace in the courage it took to chase my dream, even if it meant a temporary retreat.
My return to salaried work wasn’t without its own perks. I embraced the stability and structure it offered, utilizing its benefits to shield my family from the anxieties of uncertainty. Through it all, I held onto the tenacious spirit that had always propelled me forward, weathering both triumphs and setbacks with unwavering determination.
As I stand at the precipice of another turning point, the year ahead demands a renewed focus on frugality. It’s time to simplify my life and prepare emotionally for the day retirement beckons. Whether I possess the skills and resources to navigate that phase remains to be seen, but I face it with a cautious optimism. While I don’t foresee any major career shifts on the horizon, I hope to cultivate my writing skills and build a stronger online presence, resources that may prove invaluable in the years to come.
Life’s claws may have carved their marks, but they have also sculpted me into the resilient individual I am today. I embrace the journey, the lessons learned, and the uncertainties that lie ahead, knowing that with each step, I continue to write my own story, one filled with the courage to chase dreams, the wisdom to adapt, and the unwavering spirit to carve my own path.
Do you sometimes just feel irritable for no reason? I slept well, but I found myself surprisingly easily irritable on this lovely morning. Even small, insignificant things seemed to shake my equilibrium.
I’m dismayed at how easily non-consequential events can upset me. I was frustrated for example because my normally cute dog, did not want to go outside. When I called her. Consequently, this morning, I’m working at transforming this uncool sense of irritability within me.
It’s a beautiful morning outside, the sun is shining, and there is no rain. I have no immediate pressures on me, yet I feel irritable. I don’t understand the source of this irritability, but I know that I can redirect its energy into calmness, focus, and a deliberate mindset.
Rather than being caught up in the disturbance, I am raising myself above the situation to bring calm within myself. I do this by visualizing the situation and it’s outcome as it would play out without the irritability. By rethinking the situation and seeing the new outcome within me and the feeling of calm within me I am reprogramming my mind to react differently and more in line with my values and ethics. This visualization along with a reflection on the virtues I aspire to bring into my life, are powerful transformative techniques. I use these techniques to reframe my thinking and emotive reaction to life circumstances.
This rune IS is very appropriate for this exercise, as it assists me today to focus and put the storm to rest before it even begins.
Anger, irritability, and frustration: I abandon and reject. In exchange, I invite in peace, calm, and focus.
I bring the light of my inner consciousness to shine within me. The anger and frustration burn away and dissolve. I am calm. I am at peace.
I smile at the newfound strength of my inner being as it rises up and fills my essence and spills over into my existence. I am the power of the wild beast that stands proudly in field unperturbed by the storm clouds that gather on the horizon. This metaphor, borrowed from the rune UR, helps me to further strengthen the picture that I envision for myself of the calmness that overwrite all traces of irritability.
Are you sitting with feelings you no longer want as attachments? Take time out and reframe your experience and create new patterns of thought for your mind to venture on. With repeated use new neuropathways are developed for the impulsive mind to follow. Ultimately the pathways you no longer want, like irritability, will no longer be an option. What you do want , like the pathway of calmness, will become your default.
The Law of Environment: Where we are, we resonate with traces from the past.
The Law of Association: We become like the company we keep.
The Law of listening: What we listen to, we perceive as real.
The Law of Surrender: When we let go, we are able to receive.
The Law of acceptance: When we accept things as they are, we free ourselves to move forward.
The Law of Thought: As we think, so we become.
The Law of Gratitude: What we appreciate, increases.
The Law of Visualization: What we imagine, we create.
The Law of Intention: When we set an intention with clarity and focus, we manifest.
The Law of Action: What we do, we attract.
The Law of Resonance: When we surround ourselves with things that resonate with us, we raise our vibration.
The Law of Momentum: Once we start moving in a direction, it becomes easier to keep going.
The Law of collaboration: When we work in accord with universal law, opportunities to grow and evolve increases.
The list of laws start with the laws that are more passive, where we are simply receptive to the influences of our environment and the people around us. Then we can move on to the laws where we are more active, taking steps to raise our vibration and manifest our desires. Finally, we can acknowledge the forces that can support us in our journey.
Here is a brief explanation of each law:
The Law of Environment:
The environment we live in has a direct impact on our vibration. When we are surrounded by positive and uplifting things, our vibration is raised. When we are surrounded by negative and draining things, our vibration is lowered.
The Law of Association:
The people we spend time with also have a direct impact on our vibration. When we surround ourselves with positive and supportive people, our vibration is raised. When we surround ourselves with negative and critical people, our vibration is lowered.
The Law of Listening:
The things we listen to can also have a significant impact on our vibration. When we listen to music, podcasts, or conversations that are positive and uplifting, our vibration is raised. When we listen to things that are negative and draining, our vibration is lowered.
The Law of Surrender:
When we surrender to the universe, we are allowing it to work its magic in our lives. This can be difficult, but it is essential for manifesting our desires. We must not attach to negative emotions that keeps us prisoners of a painful situation.
The Law of Acceptance:
When we accept things as they are, we free ourselves to move forward. This does not mean that we have to like the situation, but it does mean that we accept it and let go of our resistance to it. We don’t waste energy fighting against misfortune that fate has dealt us.
The Law of Thought: Our thoughts are powerful creators. They emit a frequency that attracts similar experiences and circumstances into our lives. We become more aware of the things we think about. Therefore, it is important to focus on positive and noble thoughts and eliminate negative thoughts.
The Law of Gratitude:
Gratitude has a powerful positive effect on our vibration. When we are grateful for the good things in our lives, we raise our vibration and attract more good things into our lives. We become aware of what is already supporting us.
The Law of Visualization:
When we visualize what we want, we are sending a message to the universe that we are ready to receive it. This can be done through meditation, journaling, or simply spending time thinking about what we want. The more clear the visualization the higher the vibration.
The Law of Intention:
Our intentions are powerful creators. When we set an intention with awareness and focus, and maintain that focus, we are more likely to manifest our desires. More focus means less disruptions and unwanted interventions.
The Law of Action:
In order to manifest our desires, we need to take action. This could be anything from reading a book about our desired outcome to taking a class or workshop. The key is to take regular actions towards our goals.
The Law of Resonance:
When we surround ourselves with things that resonate with us, we raise our vibration. This includes the music we listen to, the books we read, the items we keep in our homes and the people we spend time with. We must consciously choose the things we surround us with.
The Law of Momentum:
Once we start moving in a positive direction, it becomes easier to keep going. The more we focus on our goals and take action, the stronger our vibration becomes. The more other people and circumstances supports a course of action the more likely is success.
The Law of Collaboration:
When we work in accord with universal law, opportunities to grow and evolve increase. This means working with the flow of the universe and not against it. We tap into our full potential, seize opportunities and better assess the possibility to succeed.
I hope this helps to clarify the laws of vibration and how they can be applied to our lives.
Ultimately, the best way to use the laws is to find a way that works for you and that you can follow consistently. There is no right or wrong way to do it, as long as you are consistent and persistent.
I wish you all the best in your journey of raising your vibration and manifesting your will.
Life is too short for arguments and animosity. We have limited time to love and be loved, to build, care, and serve.
Love is the foundation of a happy and fulfilling life. It is the energy that binds us together and gives us a sense of purpose. When we love others, we are opening ourselves up to the possibility of being loved in return. This can be a vulnerable experience, but it is also one of the most rewarding.
I choose with determination today not to defile my life with negative vibes and thoughts projected to me. I hold on to the hope that love is stronger than hate and criticism.
I know from experience that it is difficult not to lash back when someone’s behavior is unfair. It takes courage to act from compassion and to continue to live within a strong flow of fellow kindness.
Compassion is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another person. It is a powerful force for good in the world. When we are compassionate, we are able to connect with others on a deep level and offer them support and understanding. This can help to heal old wounds and build bridges between people.
Yes, we need to set boundaries against the misuse and abuse of kindness. But we need not make those boundaries boundaries against the flow of nurturing and understanding. Our hearts can still be open while setting strong barriers to maintain our own integrity and well-being.
The barrier itself is not the challenge. It is the motivation and emotions we put in place to establish the boundary that matters. A boundary that pushes people away like hate and anger is inherently destructive and leads to isolation. A boundary that still allows for the free flow of compassion allows us to remain present for others and to serve and nurture without the need for any return or recognition.
We give freely what is within our power to give. We maintain a harmony and coherence that is free from external influences. Justice requires boundaries, and we uphold those boundaries for optimal social cohesion. Courage and compassion allow us to maintain the presence that facilitates optimal conditions to restore peace and re-establish harmony and balance.
Forgiveness and tolerance are the magical gateways to find peace and create an environment conducive for love and understanding.
Forgiveness is the act of letting go of anger and resentment. It is not always easy to forgive, but it is essential for living a peaceful and joyful life. When we forgive others, we are freeing ourselves from the burden of negative emotions. This can help us to move on and live our lives to the fullest.
I take this day to renew my commitment to inner peace and to the expression of that peace into the world around me. It is not an easy task, but it is one ever worthy of striving to complete with perfection and dedication. I am grateful this morning for the discipline to seek expression for my most noble thoughts through my writing. May the thoughts grow ever stronger and flow more forcefully into actions and behaviour to shape my character.
I believe that love, compassion, and forgiveness are the keys to a happy and fulfilling life. I encourage you to cultivate these qualities in your own life and to share them with others. Together, we can create a world that is more loving, compassionate, and forgiving.
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