Fairness. It’s a word we throw around a lot, but what does it truly mean? Is it about treating everyone exactly the same, regardless of their circumstances? Or is it something more nuanced?
For me, fairness is about balance and reciprocity. It’s about ensuring that everyone has a fair chance, even if that means acknowledging that everyone starts from a different place.

Let’s be honest: life isn’t fair. Some people are born with advantages, while others face immense challenges. But that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t strive for fairness.
True fairness means recognizing that everyone deserves basic human dignity and respect. It means stepping up for those who are disadvantaged and ensuring they have access to the essentials – food, shelter, healthcare.
Fairness also means understanding that our actions have consequences. If we demand respect, we must give it. If we want opportunities, we must create opportunities for others. It’s about recognizing that we are all interconnected and that our actions impact those around us.
Ultimately, fairness is about striving for a world where everyone has the chance to thrive, where benefits are distributed equitably, and where everyone is treated with dignity and respect. It’s a constant work in progress, a balancing act that requires us to be mindful of our own actions and the impact they have on others.
What are your thoughts on fairness? What does it mean to you? I’d love to hear your perspective in the comments below.
“fairness is about striving for a world where everyone has the chance to thrive, where benefits are distributed equitably, “
Who makes the decisions on what’s fair and how to distribute equitably?
A good story about “distributing equitably” comes from the American Thanksgiving story I shared a couple of times on my blog.
https://loreezlane.wordpress.com/2019/11/27/homage-to-history/
Thanks for sharing Lori