Day 2 of the “Make Your Soul Smile” challenge felt like stepping into a cosmic symphony of balance. It wasn’t about forcing myself into some rigid mold, but about aligning with the rhythm of my own innate wholeness, a wholeness that, I discovered, is already perfect and complete.
A powerful truth resonated from the outset: “forcing things saps my power.” When I obsess over my wounds, they become a constant refrain, drowning out the beautiful melody my soul wants to sing. Instead, shifting my gaze to my inherent wholeness, acknowledging that I am already healed and whole, allows healing to find its way home naturally, like sunlight filtering through leaves.
This balance permeated every facet of my being. I learned that anger, when channeled constructively, becomes a potent fuel for good. Sorrow, on the other hand, arises from muzzling my authentic voice, a reminder to step into vulnerability and express myself without apology. Even negative thoughts, I discovered, are mere whispers of the ego, not reflections of my core essence.
Openness to the present moment emerged as the maestro of control. In this mindful acceptance, I found myself dancing with the universe, surrendering to the ebb and flow of life. The most important work, I realized, is the constant tending of my own consciousness, a devotion to my own divinity, fueled by self-compassion and self-love.
Getting stuck in “not doing” was acknowledged as a false note in this symphony. Life, I was reminded, embraces imperfection and inconsistency. Failure is a teacher, not a judge, and balance isn’t a rigid pose, but a dynamic interplay of forces.
The day’s insights extended beyond my inner landscape. I learned that criticizing others pushes love away, both from them and from myself. My outer world, it seems, is simply a mirror reflecting the lightheartedness I cultivate within. The pursuit of happiness, I discovered, lies not in external acquisitions, but in deepening my connection to my full inner nature, accumulating experiences of joy and love.
In this beautiful acceptance of unity, I glimpsed the truth of interconnectedness: “We are all one, nobody owes me anything.” Envy, in this light, became a discordant note, replaced by the celebration of another’s prosperity. The path to self-love, I learned, leads through “getting over myself,” embracing both my strengths and vulnerabilities.
The work, I was reassured, happens right where I am; not at some wishful place where I think I should be. Expectation gives way to acceptance, my purpose to the unfolding present. I attract not through chasing, but through being, through the quiet resonance of my authentic self. Denying reality, I discovered, only prolongs the suffering. The key lies in shifting my internal narratives, letting go of outdated stories and embracing the ever-evolving paradigm within.
Suffering, I learned, is a resistance to what is, a dance with shadows instead of light. Depression, a mere focusing on the darkness, finds no room in the presence of my true nature, a nature brimming with love and joy. My personal and professional lives, too, become harmonious when balanced in giving and receiving, with gratitude and love.
The day ended with a gentle reminder: Not to become a product of my environment and ego driven thoughts, but to stay on purpose, honor my values, and remember that the present moment is the only stage where the play of life truly unfolds. I was encouraged to let go of past regrets and missed opportunities, for in the stillness of my being, a new orchestra takes its place, ready to compose the symphony of my soul.
I will listen to the wisdom of my heart, leave the human experience to its natural evolution, and embrace the space between the notes, for it is there, in the silence, that my soul truly smiles.
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Reflection: Day 1 of the 5 day Smiling Soul challenge with Brad Shuttleworth.
A Day of Hopeful Awakening!
Today, stepping onto the path of the Smiling Soul challenge, felt like stepping into a sunlit meadow. The air vibrated with a quiet hum of possibility, and each note scribbled in my journal became a stepping stone on a journey of self-discovery.
The core message resonated deeply: “inner change ripples outward”. It’s a truth that echoes in the ancient adage, “As within, so without.” We are the architects of our own reality, and the bricks of our edifice are laid not in mortar and stone, but in the thoughts, feelings, and beliefs that we hold within.
Letting go of past perceptions, embracing the Divine within – these are the keys to unlocking our full potential. It’s about silencing the mental chatter and allowing our true purpose to unfold, like a rosebud basking in the morning dew.
The challenge whispers of creating a method, a ritual to remember our essence, pure love uncorrupted by the mind’s machinations. It reminds us that God’s gifts don’t exceed our capacity, and that we stand in the sweet spot of the present, where every moment holds the potential for a breakthrough.
It’s a dance, this journey, a tango between ego and soul. The ego, with its anxieties and limitations, becomes the gateway to the Divine if we choose to see it as such. We are spiritual beings, wearing these human suits, here to experience life’s tapestry in all its vibrant hues.
Present fully, without agenda – that’s the sacred space where peace unfurls. It’s a space beyond thought, beyond the tyranny of the mind, where we simply exist in the embrace of the present moment.
And then, there’s the mind, that powerful servant. It can be programmed, imprinted with positive thoughts and images, transforming the subconscious into a fertile ground for our highest good.
Connecting with authenticity, with our true selves, is the essence of this journey. It’s about creating habits that align with our deepest values, a holy hour each day to plant the seeds of gratitude and affirmation.
The challenge is a gentle call to action:
– Strive for kindness, not just correctness.
– Reprogram the subconscious.
– Remember, gratitude is a superpower.
Our true nature, that unblemished spark, awaits us. It’s the compass that points towards compassion for ourselves and for others. It’s the key that unlocks forgiveness, reminding us that the one who truly suffers is the one who holds onto resentment.
So, I ask myself, what does my higher self devotion look like? What steps can I take to uncover my purpose? There are no in-betweens, no fuzzy middle grounds. This is a journey of commitment, of nurturing my imagination, my vision, my very essence.
And in the quiet stillness, I hear a whisper: “Create your vision board. Look at it daily. Let it be a beacon, guiding you towards the future you dream of.”
This is not a sprint, but a slow, deliberate walk along a sunlit path. It’s about savoring the journey, celebrating small victories, and honoring the ritual. It’s about releasing expectations and embracing the magic of presence.
Silence, they say, is perfect knowledge. And perhaps, in the quiet corners of our minds, we’ll find the answer we’ve always sought – the purpose that shimmers within, deeper than thought, brighter than any star.
This is just the beginning, the first brushstroke on the canvas of my Smiling Soul journey. And I, for one, can’t wait to see the masterpiece unfold.
My life’s Compass
What is your mission?
~ My life’s Compass ~

My life’s compass has been forged by a lifetime of challenges, each etching its mark upon my soul. Unseen threads, woven from serendipity’s hand, have guided my path: a worn book whispering forgotten wisdom, a friend’s words lighting a spark, or a quiet moment of insight blooming in the garden of my mind.
My mission, etched in the fire of these experiences, is to be a beacon of hope and upliftment, radiating a net-positive impact on all I encounter. Every interaction is a chance to leave someone feeling more whole, more empowered. This is not a solitary pursuit; it is an act of multiplication.
On the individual level, I wear the cloak of compassion. It knows no exceptions. I step not as a dictator, but as a guide, offering the knowledge and lessons gleaned from my own battles. I become a teacher, not by force, but by recognizing need and offering the tools I possess.
But my gaze extends beyond the individual. I yearn to weave a society where justice and fairness dance hand in hand, a democracy that celebrates the unique threads of each life while fostering a vibrancy of collective unity. This is the social agility that fuels our collective growth and unlocks our boundless creativity.
This, then, is my mission: to be a net-positive force, a weaver of wholeness, a champion of diversity, and a spark igniting the flame of collective creation. This is the compass that guides me, the fire that burns within. It is not a passive endeavor, but an active pursuit, a daily dance with the world around me.
© Jurgens Pieterse, All rights reserved, 2024
~ Agility in the Face of Challenge ~
~ Agility in the Face of Challenge ~

It was a rough night. Sleep eluded me, leaving me with burning eyes and a body filled with discontent. The momentum and power I’d built over the past few days felt shattered, lost against the hard surface of fading hope. My body, once vibrant, now felt numb, frozen, devoid of the strength to fight or fly. Even the soothing candle flame and the depths of the black mirror offered no solace.
But despite the darkness, a flicker of resolve remains. I know that I must navigate this day with care, one step at a time. Checking in with my emotions, acknowledging them before they turn into a tide of anger, fueled by exhaustion. Finding the energy to feel life again, to return to the quest for freedom and self-discovery.
The choice is mine. I possess the agility to shift my awareness, to move beyond the temptation of procrastination. No more hiding behind excuses or seeking elusive balance in an unfamiliar environment.
Today, I rise to meet the new day, accepting the challenges it brings. I embrace the present moment, recognizing my inherent agility and resilience, the strength to persevere. For this is just another day, and I will rise to the occasion, feeling the pulse of life coursing through me.
I am grateful for this awareness, for the understanding of its impact. And with this knowledge, I boldly and courageously step forward, ready to face the challenges ahead.
© Jurgens Pieterse, 2023, All rights reserved.
The Hero’s Journey: Embracing My Cracks and Weaknesses

I feel a deep presence in both work and love, and the pressure shows through my cracks and weaknesses. It’s time for shadow work and to acknowledge that I am still far from perfection and as I age these weaknesses might show even more clearly. However, I continue to make adjustments until I can no longer avoid the inevitable. I remain accountable for my life and responsible for my actions. I will continue to carry the best interests of those who depend on me.
To acknowledge weakness is not a flae, nor a sign of pessimism or depression. Knowing yourself means knowing truly and deeply who you are, in the full picture of your being. Knowing your weaknesses also helps you to appreciate the strength that you have to cope with those weaknesses. I appreciate more than ever these silent moments of getting in touch with my inner soul, and even my own demons. I am at peace with this moment, and I am gentle with myself. I take care of my own inner spirit so that it can be of service to humanity and those around me, whether appreciated by others or not.
I have no argument to make people love me. I can only set myself on the best path that I can muster, one that will serve the greater good of all. I have no expectations from others, as their reactions and actions are beyond my control. For me, there are only open arms to embrace when I can extend love and service to those around me. I don’t need love to love, or respect to respect. I take care of myself so that I can be loving and resilient in the love that I give.
That is the hero’s journey – to be true to myself. It is to live to the best of my ability, to attain my destiny. Today, I will do both and I will do the best that I can, striving to be impeccable rather than perfect.
© Jurgens Pieterse, 2023,All rights reserved.