The Power of Presence; beyond First Impressions

What’s the first impression you want to give people?

Greet with confidence irrespective of appearances.

I’ve come to realize that first impressions aren’t about making a perfect image or adhering to societal norms. They’re about connecting with another soul on a deeper level. When I meet someone new, my aim is to create a space where they feel seen, heard, and valued.


I strive to approach each encounter with an open heart and a genuine spirit. I seek to acknowledge the unique spark within each individual, recognizing their potential for growth and transformation. By embracing their imperfections and celebrating their strengths, I hope to inspire them to step into their full power.


I believe that true connection happens when we’re willing to be vulnerable and authentic. By sharing my own experiences and struggles, I aim to create a sense of empathy and understanding. I want others to know that it’s okay to be imperfect, that it’s okay to make mistakes, and that it’s okay to seek help. It’s also ok to be proud and acknowledge achievements. It’s ok to be you, no more and no less.


Ultimately, I hope that my interactions leave a lasting impression, not because of my outward appearance or polished demeanor, but because of the positive energy and genuine care that I bring to each encounter. By fostering a sense of belonging and acceptance, I aim to create a world where everyone feels empowered to be their authentic selves.

Why I Won’t Compromise on My Perfectly Ridiculous Routine

What part of your routine do you always try to skip if you can?

“Noooo! Don’t you dare suggest I skip a step in my perfectly curated daily ritual! Every little detail, from the precise angle of my toothpaste tube to the sacred order of my morning coffee brewing, is a masterpiece of efficiency. I’m not doing this for mom or dad anymore. I’m doing it for me.

Can you imagine crafting a beautiful, intricate ritual only to sabotage it with a half-hearted effort? It’s like baking a gourmet cake and then frosting it with a glop of store-bought icing. A travesty, I say!

So, my advice? If something in your ritual isn’t bringing you joy, toss it out faster than a bad roommate. Be the captain of your own ship, and steer it towards a future of perfectly timed toasts and perfectly brewed coffee.


And remember, if you ever find yourself questioning the sanity of your daily routine, just remember: we’re all a little bit crazy, and that’s what makes life interesting. Or at least that’s what I tell myself when I spend 10 minutes trying to get the perfect amount of soap on my loofah.”

© Jurgens Pieterse. All rights reserved. 2024

A cuteness overload

What is good about having a pet?

Through our pets, we connect with the natural world and our own humanity. They offer us a unique perspective, reminding us of our place in the grand scheme of things. Whether it’s the unwavering loyalty of a dog, the aloof independence of a cat, or the gentle nature of a bird, our pets teach us about life, loss, and the preciousness of every moment.

Animals, with their unfiltered emotions and simple pleasures, are masters of life’s little lessons. They remind us to embrace the moment, practice unconditional love, cultivate patience, and find joy in the simplest things. Ever watched a dog joyfully chase its tail or a cat bask in a sunbeam? They’re living proof that happiness can be as simple as a warm patch of sunlight. Our pets love us for who we are, not what we do or have. They’re the ultimate wingmen, always there to offer a paw-sitive outlook on life.

Training a pet can be a test of patience, but the rewards are immense. It’s like a crash course in perseverance, teaching us that even the most stubborn creature can eventually learn to sit (or at least pretend to). A simple walk in the park with a dog or a quiet cuddle with a cat can bring immense joy. It’s like therapy, but with fewer fees and more purrs.


So, the next time you’re feeling down or stressed, take a moment to connect with your pet. Their love, loyalty, and unique personalities have the power to lift your spirits and enrich your life in countless ways. After all, who needs a therapist when you have a furry friend to listen to your woes (and maybe even judge you a little)?

My First Love: The Language of the Universe

What was your favorite subject in school?


I can’t remember a time when I wasn’t enchanted by numbers. It all started in primary school when a wise teacher told me, “If you love math, math will love you back.” I was only ten, but those words stuck with me.

The magic of numbers


Of course, it wasn’t always easy. One teacher tried to drill multiplication tables into my head, but that wasn’t the way to my heart. It was a bit like trying to force a friendship! Luckily, a few years later, I met a truly inspiring teacher who ignited my passion for math. She encouraged me to think critically and explore new ideas, and her motto, “Think! It might be a new experience!” has stayed with me ever since.


Thanks to her, I discovered a love for problem-solving and logical thinking. This led me to pursue a degree in Industrial Engineering, where I faced many challenges, including some seriously tough math courses. I even threw a textbook against the wall in frustration once or twice! But through it all, my love for math kept me going.


Today, I’m grateful for the journey that math has taken me on. It’s a universal language that transcends cultures and borders. Whether I’m crunching numbers or simply admiring a beautiful equation, I’m always amazed by its power and elegance.


© Jurgens Pieterse. All rights reserved. 2024

Ubuntu: A Global Day of Silent Reflection

Invent a holiday! Explain how and why everyone should celebrate.


Tired of the Noise? Ready for a Reboot?
Imagine a world where the constant chatter of notifications, the relentless pursuit of material gain, and the endless cycle of news and drama take a backseat. A world where humanity pauses, breathes, and reconnects with its inner self.


As your benevolent world leader, I decree a global holiday of silent meditation. A day where we collectively unplug from the chaos of the outside world and tune into the serene depths of our own minds.


A Day for Humanity; this isn’t a religious holiday, nor is it a new age fad. It’s a simple, yet profound, act of self-care for the entire planet. A day to:
Meditate: Whether it’s silent contemplation, prayer, or simply clearing your mind, this is your time. Connect: Feel the energy of human connection, even in silence. A simple smile can convey volumes.Reset: Press the “refresh” button on your mind, body, and soul.

Ubunthu holiday for reflection and connection

A Global Ubuntu – Inspired by the African philosophy of Ubuntu, “I am because we are,” this global holiday celebrates our interconnectedness. By acknowledging the sacred spirit within each other, we foster empathy, compassion, and understanding.

So, let’s embark on this journey together. Let’s create a world where peace, love, and understanding reign supreme. A world where we’re not just individuals, but a harmonious collective.


Are you ready to join the movement?