Creating order: Gardening

I am still writing on the virtue of order.  Yesterday I decided to not to just write about the virtue of order but also to put it in action by actually creating some order in my garden. It is a period of drought so gardening is not easy at present in the Cape Town area. One tends to think that there is no reason to be doing gardening if you cannot grow anything. In my case weed has grown and created a sore eye so I decided to cut the grass to at least great a neater view for the eye. I also invested in a weed eater to cut the weed down that grew against the walls. I placed a few boulders strategically to add to the visual appeal of the garden entrance.

In total, I spend about an hour in my garden but what a magnificent change it made.  That meager hour was well spent. When you walk into the yard it creates a whole new impression that is uplifting. Suddenly the space feels more open and welcoming. Even though it is still dry just a little bit of effort made a huge difference in the actual feel and experience of getting home and leaving home. I have done Fen Shui within the home but have not really extended my ideas to the outside.

The point is that creating order does not need to be a huge process. A mere hour spend differently can make a fundamental difference. I could have sat in front of the Television or just read and used coming back from work as the excuse for my laziness. However taking that little bit of effort to make a change and act on the intent to create more order in my life enabled me to make a shift. Interestingly enough last night was also the night I had the best deep sleep since the start of the year according to my smart band. It seems that the adage that a day of good work leads to better sleep worked this time.

I searched the internet for ideas to create more appealing gardens that is drought resistant. I placed the intent to continue to work in my garden in this year and make it look even better and more appealing despite the drought itself.

The bottom line is that creating order on a practical level brings many benefits in how we feel and experience life. Often people feel that if they are ordered then they will stifle creativity but the opposite is actually true. The moment we create order we ignite the principle of being creative and we can act more creatively. Order has its own set of benefits it brings to the emotions, mind and soul.

The inner garden

This morning I joined Paul Barker’s Meetup Group for a Men’s Heart walk; my third walk with this particular group aiming to empower men to reconnect with and redefine their masculinity through nature. Sadly this morning it was only myself and Paul who were there for the walk. But Paul seemed set on not allowing his vision to dissipate and we continued on the walk.


The mist created a thick layer over the beach and we could only see a few metres in front of us. The famous Table Mountain was visible against the skyline. The temperature was surprisingly pleasant. We started off by reading a poem: ‘Easter morning in Wales‘ by David Whyte. The poem speaks about our inner garden that is so often neglected rather than nurtured.

The beach itself was very busy. It seemed like a school community had come down to walk on the beach. We were not much perturbed by them since the beach has much space to offer everybody. I took my sandals off to wade in the shallow water. The water was cold in its embrace of my feet.

I was pondering my own inner garden; something that has existed for me for ten years. As a Rosicrucian I visit and nurture this inner garden of the mind often. In the poem the garden contains a tomb but my garden has a wonderful crystal cave… a sanctuary protected from the strife of life.

I thought about how there are parts in my garden that are neglected and that I need to take a wider stroll in that inner image to discover the neglected parts. Those deeper parts of me, I hide away, for they are unappreciated by others. Often the neglect is due to concern for others so that parts of myself are sacrificed for the greater common good. Maybe it is just because I have not found out how to integrate that part of me into my world of being. Everything we have has purpose and eventually every part of us has a role to play in living our destiny. I thought about how this inner garden is a mirror of the external world and how the two relate to each other.

On my route I picked up two small pebbles, one white and one black. A beautiful yin-yang depiction of the inner-outer duality of life.

We stopped after walking for an hour in silence and had a lovely conversation. We walked back chatting further and had a cup of coffee at a restaurant before saying our goodbyes.

I left the beach mindful of my inner garden and its need to be continually nurtured but also reminded that it is a place for my enjoyment and inner well-being.

(To read the poem see: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1130461853646483&substory_index=0&id=213407562018588)